Are you feeling anxious and consumed with thoughts and feelings about a relationship that just isn't working as it should?
Do you jump when the phone rings or or an email dings and you freeze with dread as you anticipate what will be said.
Does even the thought of interacting with this person fill you will tension, making you distracted, grumpy as though there is a cloud over you head, blocking you from even enjoying your relationships which are working!
Whether this person fits into your love life, family life or work life...
It doesn't have to be like that!
I know when you are under the dark cloud of an unhealthy situation, it feels like every way you turn is entangled like an overgrown jungle and dark and miserable and you just can't see a way out.
I am here to show you - there is a way out!
You can actually feel good again. You can enjoy relationships that are nourishing to you and the other person so that you can both be effective in the purpose of the relationship. You can express yourself freely and not feel like you are treading on egg shells. You can enjoy harmony, free from anxiety and stress. You can climb above the entangled branches and see clear sky again and choose your own direction for fulfillment - and I will provide the ladder!
The truth is that YOU are at the heart of all your relationships.
I have worked closely with clients:
To re-connect a 'middle-aged' relationship after the kids left home
To re-connect with adult children and friends, after years of feeling alone and sad.
To feel better about parents divorcing so she could move on and find her dream partner.
To unblock what had restricted a love commitment (now happily married!)
To re-negotiate fantastic terms in her career - with more time off and bonus than they imagined.
To create a different way of communicating with the new CEO, so my client was left alone and trusted to work independently - resulting in his best year ever for bonus and time off!
To detangle from a toxic relationship - release the poison and date with confident magnetism and optimism!
The success and effectiveness of any relationship relies on the same foundations and processes and often break down through poor communication and the underlying motivations. Through self awareness and understanding of your motivations and how you communicate we have a starting point for improving your relationships. I will take your hand and together we unravel the shell and discover your truth in your relationships. It may feel uncomfortable at times - like a snake shedding a skin or a butterfly emerging from a cocoon but as Werner Erhard says:
"The truth will set you free - but it might piss you off first!"
Its so much easier when you have someone to share with, who understands and listens and coaches you through!
Through this blog I will share and you will gain resources and tips to reconnect your relationship and communicate for harmony and effectiveness so your relationships become nourishing and easy!
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